17-02-2010, 09:02 PM
I am in exactly the same boat , but as far as i am aware my husband has not done it for 3 years. We got married just under 2 years ago and now have our first child who is 8 months. I like you knew something was wrong but he wouldn't tell me. I foud out when i was looking for something in his coat. He then had no choice to admit it, i then found out that it was the 3rd time this week. I am so lost as its not just about the two of us anymore there is a child involved. I feel sick. I just dont know how to feel and what the future holds now