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help with dealing with the shock of finding out
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I have just found out that my husband of 10 years has a massive gambling debt.

we have 3 children under the age of 9. i knew nothing of what has been going on other than i knew our money should have been going further that it was.

i only discovered this because he had to close his bank account and had to use mine for his wages, it was only then that i got the truth out of him.

he has 3 credit cards and 2 loans. we are getting help to sort these out and his wages now go into my account and i have taken his name off everything i can (my instant reaction was to make sure the bills will be paid and my kids taken care of), but i dont know what i do about us.

Its the enormaty of the lies and the lost of trust that kills me.

i believe for him it started when i was suffering v bad post natal depression with our 3rd child 3 years ago. i think we both just blocked eachother out to cope.

i really need to find a way to help and support him now, as we cant loose what we have.

i truly appreciate any help, advise or even just kind words at this point!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

thank you for taking the time to listen
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help with dealing with the shock of finding out - by Guest - 14-03-2010, 11:59 PM
Re: help with dealing with the shock of finding out - by Guest - 16-03-2010, 06:21 AM

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