04-04-2010, 03:45 AM
Hi pearlyspencer
I have met some gamblers who have been to gaol for committing crimes to enable their gambling. They are normal everyday people, people I would quite happily have as friends. Without a doubt however, they all live with the regret of being convicted. This means they have to report in for parole, any jobs they apply for have to be approved by a board of trustees, and the prospective employer has to be told about the conviction. Not a happy life to look forward to is it?
Even though you think life could not get any worse...it can. The choice is yours. Ultimately, I think you will agree that your family will find out at some stage. Surely that information should come from you?
In the meantime, get along to your nearest GA meeting. If you WANT help and WANT to stop gambling, you can. You have to make the first step. Others in the GA program will be able to help you along the way. They are no different from you. You will not be judged. Go with an open mind and be honest with yourself and them.
Best wishes
Roy
I have met some gamblers who have been to gaol for committing crimes to enable their gambling. They are normal everyday people, people I would quite happily have as friends. Without a doubt however, they all live with the regret of being convicted. This means they have to report in for parole, any jobs they apply for have to be approved by a board of trustees, and the prospective employer has to be told about the conviction. Not a happy life to look forward to is it?
Even though you think life could not get any worse...it can. The choice is yours. Ultimately, I think you will agree that your family will find out at some stage. Surely that information should come from you?
In the meantime, get along to your nearest GA meeting. If you WANT help and WANT to stop gambling, you can. You have to make the first step. Others in the GA program will be able to help you along the way. They are no different from you. You will not be judged. Go with an open mind and be honest with yourself and them.
Best wishes
Roy