21-04-2010, 09:30 AM
My husband gambles, how can I help him we have been together for 18 years have two great kids but still he gambles. Life could be bliss but its like being on a tread mill that you can't get off, always paying off debt, feeling like you are getting somewhere to find out there is even more debt because of the gambling.
He has been clever I thought I had controll of all the banking including credit cards but with on-line gambling he managed to remember all numbers needed to sign in and has run up another large debt. How can I stop the on-line gambling???
Is it me? Am I being incredible dense? Should I have seen this happening? Could I have controlled the computer better? Etc Etc
What can I do to help stop this never ending MESS????
Reading other peoples thoughts I am lucky that he has told me what is going on, but like all others he is remorseful and wants to change, all things that I have heard before. He can stop, but only for a few months and then it starts all over again.
Sorry if this doen't make sense nothing seem to at the moment.
He has been clever I thought I had controll of all the banking including credit cards but with on-line gambling he managed to remember all numbers needed to sign in and has run up another large debt. How can I stop the on-line gambling???
Is it me? Am I being incredible dense? Should I have seen this happening? Could I have controlled the computer better? Etc Etc
What can I do to help stop this never ending MESS????
Reading other peoples thoughts I am lucky that he has told me what is going on, but like all others he is remorseful and wants to change, all things that I have heard before. He can stop, but only for a few months and then it starts all over again.
Sorry if this doen't make sense nothing seem to at the moment.