10-05-2010, 10:07 AM
Not posted anything for a couple of weeks thought we had turned a bit of a corner, but no my husband had a bad couple of days, BUT and it is a big but he has at long last said he needs help.
Part of me is pleased the other half is feeling really sad, but it is a start.
Thank you for all the advice. I have taken control of ALL finances, set a budget and will give my husband just some general living money ie Bus fare . Is this a good thing or am I treating him too much like a child???????
Also no one in the family can use the computer without me being present to keep checking what sites they have accessed.
We have a 12year old daughter who knows that something is going on should I keep her guessing or be hoonest with her and tell her about her dad.
Thank you for your thought it has helped to keep me positive, so I'll keep popping back just to have a chat.
Di
Part of me is pleased the other half is feeling really sad, but it is a start.
Thank you for all the advice. I have taken control of ALL finances, set a budget and will give my husband just some general living money ie Bus fare . Is this a good thing or am I treating him too much like a child???????
Also no one in the family can use the computer without me being present to keep checking what sites they have accessed.
We have a 12year old daughter who knows that something is going on should I keep her guessing or be hoonest with her and tell her about her dad.
Thank you for your thought it has helped to keep me positive, so I'll keep popping back just to have a chat.
Di