08-06-2010, 10:34 AM
Hi Andy
BigDave is right. When you are ready to share your story, or participate in your GA meeting, you will know.
Some of our members took about 6 meetings before they felt like they could "trust" us enough to speak.
Take your time. This is a lifelong recovery program that you are now in.
Glad to hear that you think your head is clearing a bit. The anger you are feeling will hopefully ease in time. We all know how hard it is to leave well enough alone, but once you can accept that you cannot recover your losses, you will feel much better.
You said that it will take you months to pay off your debt. I understand your worry mate.
Remember though that there are members that will never be able to pay off their debts.
If I am lucky, I may be debt free by the time I am 70....18 years away...getting old. <!-- s
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Just do the best you can mate. If you are having trouble with any of the payments, remember to contact the creditors as early as possible as you may be able to come to some agreement that will suit you better.
Best wishes
Roy
BigDave is right. When you are ready to share your story, or participate in your GA meeting, you will know.
Some of our members took about 6 meetings before they felt like they could "trust" us enough to speak.
Take your time. This is a lifelong recovery program that you are now in.
Glad to hear that you think your head is clearing a bit. The anger you are feeling will hopefully ease in time. We all know how hard it is to leave well enough alone, but once you can accept that you cannot recover your losses, you will feel much better.
You said that it will take you months to pay off your debt. I understand your worry mate.
Remember though that there are members that will never be able to pay off their debts.
If I am lucky, I may be debt free by the time I am 70....18 years away...getting old. <!-- s
--><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_e_smile.gif" alt="" title="Smile" /><!-- s --> Just do the best you can mate. If you are having trouble with any of the payments, remember to contact the creditors as early as possible as you may be able to come to some agreement that will suit you better.
Best wishes
Roy