01-08-2010, 08:22 AM
I would suggest that you go to an Gamanon meeting. You will find friends and helpful information there. Bring home some leaflets explain to you partner what you are doing and why you are doing it. e.g you love him but you cannot carry on like this and you need to find help and protect yourself. If and when the time is right maybe leave some leaflets so that he can see and read them - maybe even together. He will only give up when he is ready but with GENTLE, SUBTLE and KIND direction, in my opinion, that day MIGHT come sooner.
Start making plans to protect yourself. DO NOT make threats that you do not carry out, in my opinion that might make things worse.
There is always help available, but it will only work if you take it, and use it as directed.
Start making plans to protect yourself. DO NOT make threats that you do not carry out, in my opinion that might make things worse.
There is always help available, but it will only work if you take it, and use it as directed.