28-09-2010, 06:48 PM
I have been with my fiance for 9 years, since i was 15 years old. When I met him I was naive and thought that going to the casino for a date was exciting and fun. 9 years later and I have a total nightmare. We got engadged 5 years ago and we live in a flat, just..
Every couple of weeks he comes home in his usual funny mood, and i instantlly know what he has just done. On one occasion i caught him in the betting shop and called him every name under the sun, i even screamed abuse at the people working there, although i know it is not their fault.
Tens of thousands of pounds have gone and he is in serious debt. I have numerous loans to pay off that i have taken out to help him, only for him to throw it back in my face.
None of my friends feel i should be with him, but I do love him and I can see past what he does, but he IS a liar and he IS a compulsive gambler, which makes him almost impossible to live with.
He has just left the house to go to a meeting, but i have seen this so many times before.. he goes to a couple and then gives up! I have now got all his money and he has no cards, i cut them all up. Am i stupid and mad for staying?? Is there any chance he will sort himself out?? i have just started a nursing degree at uni and need all the support i can get. Emma x
Every couple of weeks he comes home in his usual funny mood, and i instantlly know what he has just done. On one occasion i caught him in the betting shop and called him every name under the sun, i even screamed abuse at the people working there, although i know it is not their fault.
Tens of thousands of pounds have gone and he is in serious debt. I have numerous loans to pay off that i have taken out to help him, only for him to throw it back in my face.
None of my friends feel i should be with him, but I do love him and I can see past what he does, but he IS a liar and he IS a compulsive gambler, which makes him almost impossible to live with.
He has just left the house to go to a meeting, but i have seen this so many times before.. he goes to a couple and then gives up! I have now got all his money and he has no cards, i cut them all up. Am i stupid and mad for staying?? Is there any chance he will sort himself out?? i have just started a nursing degree at uni and need all the support i can get. Emma x