03-10-2010, 06:37 AM
Well how do you start, my husband and i have been together about 20 years, he has a gambling problem, hes been packing up every year for 20 years. He is in debt by tens of thousands and still gambling, the debts are being managed but hes still gambling, keeps telling me how well hes doing when the debts are gone what a good life we will have, he gets nasty and aggressive. I find betting slips, friends see him in bookies (they dont know about the problem) it effects everything, marriage is dead, the lies get worse, feel very alone and sad .....