04-10-2010, 10:15 PM
Hello Anon,
Firstly let me apolagise for any offence my reply might cause you, this is not my intention.
You have a choice; come clean about your gambling, deceit and debt to your husband and risk losing him or carry on the way you are going and pretty much gaurantee losing him and everything else you have.
You stated in your share that you would never risk not making mortgage payments, carry on gambling and you might not be able to make them at all.
If you really want to stop gambling then you are going to need your husbands help and support. To be able to offer this help and support he is going to have to know everything. At some point he is going to find out about the financial mess you are in anyway. It's better that he hears about it from you. I hope you take this opportunity to do something about your gambling problem.
Congratulations on the birth of your child.
Adam C.
Firstly let me apolagise for any offence my reply might cause you, this is not my intention.
You have a choice; come clean about your gambling, deceit and debt to your husband and risk losing him or carry on the way you are going and pretty much gaurantee losing him and everything else you have.
You stated in your share that you would never risk not making mortgage payments, carry on gambling and you might not be able to make them at all.
If you really want to stop gambling then you are going to need your husbands help and support. To be able to offer this help and support he is going to have to know everything. At some point he is going to find out about the financial mess you are in anyway. It's better that he hears about it from you. I hope you take this opportunity to do something about your gambling problem.
Congratulations on the birth of your child.
Adam C.