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My husband is a gambler - HELP!
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hi nat, just read your post, it has me tears as i just put my husband out last nite, it was the last thing i wanted to do, miss him loads and when he rang me in middle of the nite and ask if he could come home it broke my heart and i have my little 4 year old asking whens daddy coming home and i almost gave in but i now know i have to let him know i will not live like this anymore for me or my two children who are 14 and 4. lve been with him 11 years but have only know about his gambling a few years when he gambled our hoilday money away but promised me it would never happen again. i believed him to then find out a few months later from my brother he was still at it. lve heard all the same stuff finding betting slips and being told there for a friend and he only went in the bookies for a friend. when i stayed with him the 2nd time he promised me he would give me all his money every week, i told him if he walked back in a bookies door that would be it for sure. so this week money was missin he told me he lent to his sister, i had a bad feelin about this so rang her to find he didnt, when i said to him he lied to my face 4 times saying he had this was the first time he stood and lied to me, when i knew it was a lie for sure and that hurt so much. i really feel like ive lost the man i love and dont no how to get him back. he still denys gambling that money but there have been so many lies, how can i believe anything he says anymore, am just fed up being made to feel am blowing things out of proportion, most of all i somehow feel ive been a bad wife, if i had been better maybe he could have talked to me before it went this far. would love to hear from other people as it might help me understand this a bit more.
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My husband is a gambler - HELP! - by nat - 11-02-2010, 06:15 AM
Re: My husband is a gambler - HELP! - by Guest - 14-02-2010, 02:13 PM
Re: My husband is a gambler - HELP! - by Guest - 15-02-2010, 04:35 PM
Re: My husband is a gambler - HELP! - by nat - 07-03-2010, 08:08 PM
Re: My husband is a gambler - HELP! - by MAM2CAT - 29-03-2010, 07:02 PM
Re: My husband is a gambler - HELP! - by Guest - 31-03-2010, 09:26 AM
Re: My husband is a gambler - HELP! - by caz1979 - 09-04-2010, 07:32 PM
Re: My husband is a gambler - HELP! - by Guest - 19-04-2010, 07:52 PM
Re: My husband is a gambler - HELP! - by Guest - 20-04-2010, 01:47 AM
Re: My husband is a gambler - HELP! - by kat - 22-05-2010, 05:38 AM
Re: My husband is a gambler - HELP! - by Guest - 23-05-2010, 09:48 PM
Re: My husband is a gambler - HELP! - by kittie - 04-08-2010, 10:55 PM
Re: My husband is a gambler - HELP! - by osciejames - 07-08-2010, 08:18 AM
Re: My husband is a gambler - HELP! - by lisadespairing - 12-08-2010, 02:32 PM
Re: My husband is a gambler - HELP! - by Sarah - 12-08-2010, 07:58 PM
Re: My husband is a gambler - HELP! - by marie - 24-08-2010, 10:57 AM
Re: My husband is a gambler - HELP! - by Guest - 01-09-2010, 10:42 AM
Re: My husband is a gambler - HELP! - by Guest - 16-09-2010, 12:37 PM
Re: My husband is a gambler - HELP! - by DEVOTEDWIFE - 18-09-2010, 06:29 PM
Re: My usband is a gambler - HELP! - by Guest - 25-09-2010, 03:14 PM
Re: My husband is a gambler - HELP! - by windy - 01-10-2010, 12:21 PM
Re: My husband is a gambler - HELP! - by justme - 03-10-2010, 06:44 AM
Re: My husband is a gambler - HELP! - by sv - 09-03-2011, 12:41 PM
Re: My husband is a gambler - HELP! - by Winnie - 09-03-2011, 05:38 PM
Re: My husband is a gambler - HELP! - by Barrieexgambler - 10-03-2011, 11:27 AM

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