My husband is a gambler - HELP!

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Thank you so much for your reply - I really appreciate it. We finally talked, at first I couldnt bear to as in my head had made up my mind and with 3 children I had to consider them. Anyway he is off to his first meeting on Wednesday. I am hoping that all will be fine, need to take one step at a time but at least he is going. It is the lying that I find hard to take as I never know if he is telling the truth or not and even if he is I wouldnt believe him as so much gone on before. I feel sorry for him too as no matter what he does I wont trust him!!! Like you say it is part of the gambling and I know he is not a bad person but just cant bear living like this anymore, so Wednesday it is, I hope this will help!

I am so sorry to hear of your story and hopefully your husband will realise he what he has lost and come home, I can imagine how hard it is for you too but at least you have made that step forward and hopefully he will see that. I truly wish you well and hope things improve for you. Thank you for replying, thought no one would, it really does help to know other people are listening. Take care