26-03-2010, 09:02 AM
Just an update on my story, i got caught my husband had found out about my gambling problem and the fact i have been liying about money constantly. I know i should have told him, but i could not find the words to explain what i have done. he found out by getting letter from bank saying mortgage hadn't been paid, then it all came out. I have to admit what a relief it is, my whole family know and his, and they have all been great and are going to be there for me, my husband was leaving at first and i really thought he would. After a few days things have calmed down and we are going to work this mess out, starting with finances, trust is going to take a lot longer to sort out. My husband is taking over everything so i dont have access to money. I have promised i will not do it again, but hav told them the urge is still there, just trying to think what i ahve done and that seems to stop me from going on again. Thanks for your advise everyone, this is the start of my new life
fiona x
fiona x