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Hi paris

You have to look after yourself...That is Number ONE !!!! Having finished your cancer treatment, you will still have to work thru your recovery. Look after yourself !!! <!-- sBig Grin --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_e_biggrin.gif" alt="Big Grin" title="Very Happy" /><!-- sBig Grin -->

No CG likes to be confronted. We are like kids who have been caught with our hand in the biscuit barrel. <!-- s:oops: --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_redface.gif" alt=":oops:" title="Embarrassed" /><!-- s:oops: --> We also do not know why we do it. We just have to! It is an addiction <!-- sSad --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_e_sad.gif" alt="Sad" title="Sad" /><!-- sSad -->

Having said that, do not fall for the "guilt" trip. We will blame anyone/anything for our gambling problems...until we admit to ourselves we have a problem AND we want to fix it.
You are NOT to blame. <!-- sBig Grin --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_e_biggrin.gif" alt="Big Grin" title="Very Happy" /><!-- sBig Grin -->

The key is that he has to fix himself. He has to WANT to fix it. If he does not want to stop, he wont. You can certainly help him with his recovery if he wants to stop, but he has to do the work.

In the meantime I would suggest you take control of the finances (if he is agreeable to that).
At least make sure the necesssary bills are being paid.

Remember, YOU are the most important person, look after yourself.

Best wishes
Roy
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Help - by paris - 18-03-2010, 10:32 AM
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