How do you know if they are an addict?

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Hi, Sounds like your boyfriend is addicted and I would want to sort this out before marriage happens. It does not sound like he is investing much time into your relationship and you need to have question this. Ask him if he thinks he has a problem! Unfortunately if he does not think so you will not be able to support him in getting help. I suggest that you get some help for yourself so as to understand what living with a compulsive gambler means. There is a support group called Gamanon for the friends and families of the CG, so look up on this site and you will find you nearest meeting or else ask for some literature.
Best wishes and please come back if you have further questions.
Helen