25-05-2010, 08:09 AM
hi all
i just thought id reply to my own post with an update, ive told my hubby all about it showed him my bank account etc and have given him access to all my finances weve banned all the gambling sites by blocking the adresses he says u dont need software to do it u can do it yaself if u know how? anywayz there all blocked so i cant gamble so technically today is day 1 i know its gonna be hard but im looking forward to being free from this hold gambling has over me, and starting a new life in our new home
my hubby thinks its all to do with willpower and a case of saying no... i dont think he truely understands the grips it can have over u as if it was that easy none of us would be here now... right?? anywayz he said a mug is born every minute <!-- s:oops: --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_redface.gif" alt=":oops:" title="Embarrassed" /><!-- s:oops: --> and then asked wot im gonna say at ga meetings and if they ask why i gamble wots my answer?? i said lots of things contribute to wanting 2 do it
he never went mad i said do u still want me and he said yes ur still here arnt u lol so i guess thats good
i dont know where i found the strenght from to tell him but i did and now feel a bit better no one should carry this horible burden round with them so for all those who havent told anyone please do so.... u will feel better and ur loved ones will help u
good luck all xx
i just thought id reply to my own post with an update, ive told my hubby all about it showed him my bank account etc and have given him access to all my finances weve banned all the gambling sites by blocking the adresses he says u dont need software to do it u can do it yaself if u know how? anywayz there all blocked so i cant gamble so technically today is day 1 i know its gonna be hard but im looking forward to being free from this hold gambling has over me, and starting a new life in our new home
my hubby thinks its all to do with willpower and a case of saying no... i dont think he truely understands the grips it can have over u as if it was that easy none of us would be here now... right?? anywayz he said a mug is born every minute <!-- s:oops: --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_redface.gif" alt=":oops:" title="Embarrassed" /><!-- s:oops: --> and then asked wot im gonna say at ga meetings and if they ask why i gamble wots my answer?? i said lots of things contribute to wanting 2 do it
he never went mad i said do u still want me and he said yes ur still here arnt u lol so i guess thats good
i dont know where i found the strenght from to tell him but i did and now feel a bit better no one should carry this horible burden round with them so for all those who havent told anyone please do so.... u will feel better and ur loved ones will help u
good luck all xx