04-06-2010, 12:46 PM
Hi jo23
You would certainly be welcome at GAMANON. Especially since you are hoping to get back together with your fiance, you will need the tools & support that GAMANON can provide you.
I am not a religous person. Howver I certainly believe that having a faith in "something", whatever that may be, can help you through some tough times. If your faith helps you, good on you.
My hat goes off to partners of gamblers. Being a gambler, I can not really appreciate what we have put you through.
Don't forget about YOU. You are the most important person in your world. Look after yourself.
Make sure that you are in control of the finances (as much as you can be). You will have to be a little bit wary of what he may do re gambling. You have probably heard of stories of bank accounts wiped out in a weekend, or even a single day. These are NOT tall tales. If we go on a really big binge, we tend to gamble with ever bigger amounts, so as to try to win back our losses. It is amazing how quickly those bank accounts can empty.
Best wishes
Roy
You would certainly be welcome at GAMANON. Especially since you are hoping to get back together with your fiance, you will need the tools & support that GAMANON can provide you.
I am not a religous person. Howver I certainly believe that having a faith in "something", whatever that may be, can help you through some tough times. If your faith helps you, good on you.
My hat goes off to partners of gamblers. Being a gambler, I can not really appreciate what we have put you through.
Don't forget about YOU. You are the most important person in your world. Look after yourself.
Make sure that you are in control of the finances (as much as you can be). You will have to be a little bit wary of what he may do re gambling. You have probably heard of stories of bank accounts wiped out in a weekend, or even a single day. These are NOT tall tales. If we go on a really big binge, we tend to gamble with ever bigger amounts, so as to try to win back our losses. It is amazing how quickly those bank accounts can empty.
Best wishes
Roy