07-09-2010, 06:21 AM
Hi Dougie,
It was good to talk with you the other night in live chat. 14 days is a great start and I hope in time your two sons will begin to forgive you once you begin to rebuild a bit of trust, give it time mate.
One day at a time.
Kate,
Your bank appear to be understanding but trying to gamble what little you have to put towards the mortgage in an effort to build it up will only lead to you having nothing to put towards it (trust me I know, I tried it myself all to often), ar better just to give them what you have and then work at your recovery and when you start being able to make the payments again it will feel better. Try getting back to a meeting or even as a starter using live chat on this site, theres plenty of people who'll support you on here most evenings. Take care.
It was good to talk with you the other night in live chat. 14 days is a great start and I hope in time your two sons will begin to forgive you once you begin to rebuild a bit of trust, give it time mate.
One day at a time.
Kate,
Your bank appear to be understanding but trying to gamble what little you have to put towards the mortgage in an effort to build it up will only lead to you having nothing to put towards it (trust me I know, I tried it myself all to often), ar better just to give them what you have and then work at your recovery and when you start being able to make the payments again it will feel better. Try getting back to a meeting or even as a starter using live chat on this site, theres plenty of people who'll support you on here most evenings. Take care.