10-05-2011, 10:35 AM
Thank you jessica and steven. tonight he is going to a GA meeting, and yesterday we went to the bank together and he closed all accounts and i cut up his cards... to answer you jess, yes it proabably is affecting my studies, as i dont sllep well and feel under alot of stress when he asks me for help money wise.. but i DO want to be with him, just not the way he is when he gambles. its like something takes over him. once, i caught him in a bookies, and said i was leaving him.. he could not walk away from the machine even though i was packing my bags.. is this normal? by normal i mean does it mean he doesnt care? steven, stay strong and prove to your girlfriend you were worth sticking around for... i hope he proves that to me one day x