16-05-2011, 02:14 PM
Thanks everyone, was at a rock bottom last night <!-- s --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_e_sad.gif" alt="" title="Sad" /><!-- s -->. Well, he reckons as he won some money yesterday it will be easier for him to quit as it wont be eating away at him?! I am hoping he will go to GA tomorrow and I am going to go to gamanon. I just really hope that this time he will try properly. I keep saying this is his last chance but always want to believe him when he says he means it this time. I realise it is an illness, it just makes me so sad when i read stories on here about people realising how much they hurt their loved ones and came to their senses about stopping, I just wish he would get to that point. I don't know what will happen, all I can do is pray this time he means it.
I don't want us to split up as we have been through some very hard times and always come through them. I love him with all my heart, but like you say he may never learn whilst I am 'allowing' him to continue this behaviour. Fingers' crossed, this is the last time I have to write a post like this but somehow I doubt it!
Well, maybe for once, he will put us first and do what he needs to do for us to stay together. I am so unhappy there is no point in staying with someone who just constantly lies to you and makes you miserable. I have tried to support him as much as I can and it just gets thrown back in my face. Well, this is the last time, i just hope he proves me wrong this time.
I don't want us to split up as we have been through some very hard times and always come through them. I love him with all my heart, but like you say he may never learn whilst I am 'allowing' him to continue this behaviour. Fingers' crossed, this is the last time I have to write a post like this but somehow I doubt it!
Well, maybe for once, he will put us first and do what he needs to do for us to stay together. I am so unhappy there is no point in staying with someone who just constantly lies to you and makes you miserable. I have tried to support him as much as I can and it just gets thrown back in my face. Well, this is the last time, i just hope he proves me wrong this time.