01-06-2011, 04:52 PM
thanks for your kind words.
I went and sat down with my father in law today, and told him what had happened. I was shaking with nerves, as I respect and love my wife's family and am ashamed at what I have done to them. He is a naturally shy man, and I didn't know how he would react, but his support and understanding meant the world to me.
I feel I need to come clean to all the important people in my life, in the hope it will help to cleanse some of the guilt. It has also given me the impetus to not wait until Monday before going to my first GA meeting, but I am going to attend my first meeting tomorrow evening. I plan to walk through the door with my head held high, and start this road to a better future.
Hopefully my wife will learn one day to love and respect me again but if it is too late to plan the future together as a couple, I will make sure i am in a good place to lead my family unit as friends.
Ron.
I went and sat down with my father in law today, and told him what had happened. I was shaking with nerves, as I respect and love my wife's family and am ashamed at what I have done to them. He is a naturally shy man, and I didn't know how he would react, but his support and understanding meant the world to me.
I feel I need to come clean to all the important people in my life, in the hope it will help to cleanse some of the guilt. It has also given me the impetus to not wait until Monday before going to my first GA meeting, but I am going to attend my first meeting tomorrow evening. I plan to walk through the door with my head held high, and start this road to a better future.
Hopefully my wife will learn one day to love and respect me again but if it is too late to plan the future together as a couple, I will make sure i am in a good place to lead my family unit as friends.
Ron.