23-04-2010, 09:06 PM
Hi,
We do relapse at times. But please dont think his gambling is under control. It isn't. You need to try to get him to a meeting. He will keep doing this until he is ready to stop. He may not take to the meetings, but he will meet people like him and see a way out. He may not. Only he can tell.
Try to get him to a meeting for all your sakes, if he's ready it will help. For yourself try to find a Gam-Anon meeting, you will be able to discuss your side of this problem, that will help you.
Regards
Derekm
We do relapse at times. But please dont think his gambling is under control. It isn't. You need to try to get him to a meeting. He will keep doing this until he is ready to stop. He may not take to the meetings, but he will meet people like him and see a way out. He may not. Only he can tell.
Try to get him to a meeting for all your sakes, if he's ready it will help. For yourself try to find a Gam-Anon meeting, you will be able to discuss your side of this problem, that will help you.
Regards
Derekm