25-04-2010, 07:38 AM
Thank you so much for your reply . He had been to GA about 2 years ago, he thought the people there were kind and sincere but it wasn't for him so he only went for about 4 weeks. But i know he cant do it on his own, last time i caught up with him he was totally devaststed. He and i cant take any more .I said then i cant help him he needs expert help. Enough is enough. He's tried to go it alone and ended up relapsing, its always when we just get a little bit straight, when he doesn't need to gamble he falls off the wagon. He agreed saying he can't do this anymore. I said even if he doesn't like the meetings if he goes once a week it reminds him he can't gamble again. Im wondering if i should go to the meeting for family members, are they at the same time and place ? Thank you again, when you live with a gambler it hard to remember what reality is like !!!!!!!!