04-01-2010, 06:47 AM
Hi Andy and welldone, 175 days is a fantastic achievement , you should be really proud <!-- s
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previous behaviours have a way of bitting us on the nose ie; whilst actively gambling solitude is sort to enable the disease to have full control , now you are in recovery you crave a little contact .
Not knowing your full circumstances its hard to know whats what, but have you thought of voluntary work ( not only a source of contact but its giving something back also ) GA chat is great to as there is many people who frequent the room and much great advice, support and lafter are heard over the screen.I get the impression your self esteem is low and i can also guess that your body language and possibly your appearance screams this ,so dust yourself off , splash on some after shave and wear a smile, positivety attracts positivety(try and see ).
take care Andy and keep up the great work <!-- s
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Not knowing your full circumstances its hard to know whats what, but have you thought of voluntary work ( not only a source of contact but its giving something back also ) GA chat is great to as there is many people who frequent the room and much great advice, support and lafter are heard over the screen.I get the impression your self esteem is low and i can also guess that your body language and possibly your appearance screams this ,so dust yourself off , splash on some after shave and wear a smile, positivety attracts positivety(try and see ).
take care Andy and keep up the great work <!-- s
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