09-05-2011, 07:15 AM
Thanks again for your support.
We had more tears last night, but he is still in denial that he has a problem.
His family are removing me from Facebook - as well as becoming friends with his ex (10 years ago and someone they all supposedly hated)
I cook, clean, wash,iron, have bailed his family more times than I can count.
He goes fishing every weekend, which I thought might help.
I have not been taken out for over 8 years now.
I guess it's the lies he has to tell to cover himself. His 12 year old son shouted at me this weekend - what am I doing to his dad - but I have not told a soul.
I was starting to think I had a mental health issues.
He did say to me that I was the most beautiful person he had ever known (in personality that it), but he is obviously not telling anyone else that.
I guess this is all part of the cover up. I am now strong enough to not care about them all.
Funny thing is, he ran to his mum yesterday for support - but they are kindred spirits. She has taken more money off me with sob stories than I care to count.
All she will ever do is advise him that I am wrong for him. This is the woman who would ask for her rent money from me then spend it at Bingo.
Since I cut off the financial support to her - I went from being the daughter she wished she had, to the wicked wife his son married.
Birds of a feather stick together - Whenever there has been problem - it is a night out at Bingo to cheer everyone up.
I am still trying to support him, and we are going to talk tonight. I will go to meetings with him if I am allowed, or wait in the carpark for him. I want him to have a happy future, but deep down I know that while he is living this lie and his mother backs him, I have no chance of a future with him.
Blood is thicker than water, and his family have more issues than a day-time chat show. I know I can't make him choose which is why I have to leave, but I will help him as much as I can, Thank you all again - you have been lifesavers - in more ways than you will know x
We had more tears last night, but he is still in denial that he has a problem.
His family are removing me from Facebook - as well as becoming friends with his ex (10 years ago and someone they all supposedly hated)
I cook, clean, wash,iron, have bailed his family more times than I can count.
He goes fishing every weekend, which I thought might help.
I have not been taken out for over 8 years now.
I guess it's the lies he has to tell to cover himself. His 12 year old son shouted at me this weekend - what am I doing to his dad - but I have not told a soul.
I was starting to think I had a mental health issues.
He did say to me that I was the most beautiful person he had ever known (in personality that it), but he is obviously not telling anyone else that.
I guess this is all part of the cover up. I am now strong enough to not care about them all.
Funny thing is, he ran to his mum yesterday for support - but they are kindred spirits. She has taken more money off me with sob stories than I care to count.
All she will ever do is advise him that I am wrong for him. This is the woman who would ask for her rent money from me then spend it at Bingo.
Since I cut off the financial support to her - I went from being the daughter she wished she had, to the wicked wife his son married.
Birds of a feather stick together - Whenever there has been problem - it is a night out at Bingo to cheer everyone up.
I am still trying to support him, and we are going to talk tonight. I will go to meetings with him if I am allowed, or wait in the carpark for him. I want him to have a happy future, but deep down I know that while he is living this lie and his mother backs him, I have no chance of a future with him.
Blood is thicker than water, and his family have more issues than a day-time chat show. I know I can't make him choose which is why I have to leave, but I will help him as much as I can, Thank you all again - you have been lifesavers - in more ways than you will know x